Signs That She May Like You!
You Lucky Bastard!! So she might like you, huh? If you're reading this site, then it means you're actually rather unsure. Or you just need a good excuse to ask her out or something. Right? I mean, no guy wants to make an ass out of himself by falsely thinking a girl likes him, only to be turned down by the infamous "just friends" blow, or something similar. I mean, that could ruin an otherwise wonderful day, perhaps even the whole week! And for some guys, even longer! So you need some sort of reassurance that she does indeed like you, so that you don't have to experience the horrible fate of "just being friends" like so many other guys before you. Okay, I'll try my best, but no guarantees! I can't read women's minds! I can only tell you what I've gathered from self-experience and from what other's have told me. So don't come looking to kick my ass if she still wants to be "just friends," women can just be evil like that sometimes! Alrighty, enough said, on with the signs!
These are in no particular order....
She's Always Touching Her Hair (Hair Touching)
It's been said that if a girl touches her hair, and by that I mean primps, brushes, plays with it, etc..., she's supposedly infatuated with you. Now personally I'd think this is a sign of nervousness, and we all know that everybody gets nervous around the person they like in some way or another. So I'd look for more signs then just this one. Some girls, just simply want to straighten their hair, and some just have a habit of touching their hair. So don't take it as written in stone yet.
Her Friends Seem To Know Me, Yet I Don't Know Them! (Friends)
Girls generally tell their friends about almost everything, especially guys they've met. If her friends know about you, you're certainly on her good side. Now if you happen to have gotten stuck in the "just friends" jam, well you're probably SOL then, and the only reason she's told her friends is because you're now part of them. You're all friends!! Yippie! Don't you feel just so damn special?!
She Seems Rather "Open" (Body Language)
Unlike guys (well most guys), girls use their entire body to help portray what they are saying. Which can sometimes make things easier to read, but at the same time, can make things more difficult for the poor, uneducated male. Generally if a girl turns and faces you with her whole body while talking to you, it's a good sign that she trusts you, and trust is important. Girls also tend to stick out their chests if they like the person whom they are speaking with, as it makes them feel like they're getting more of your attention. Take note of this action, but PAHLEEZ don't play pervert now and frickin' stare like a baby looking for milk!!! Just happen to glance real *real* quickly, almost too quick to notice.
She Always Makes Eye Contact (Eye Contact)
Probably one of the most important signs, at least to me, to take notice of. A lot of guys have problems maintaining eye contact with almost anyone, it makes them feel like they're being judged, or in competition with the other male to see whose more dominant because of who can stare harder and more intensely. So most guys avoid it, Even with women! Look guys, if a woman makes eye contact with you, don't shy away from it!! Try to maintain it, but not intensely, do it gently, such as having a smile on your face, and looking down with your whole head while laughing and back up again, or something similar...but DO NOT just STARE at her! If she makes eye contact with you, it's a good sign, so don't blow it. Also, it's been said that if a person's pupils dilate (get bigger), it means that they like you, and it's an undeniable sign. But it's SOOOOOO hard to see that it's almost pointless in trying, but hey, I'm here to share whatever info I have. I'm trying to help YOU out! ;)
She's Always Smiling At Me (Smiling)
Probably fits under body language category, but the more the merrier, right? Anyway, if she smiles at you pay attention. Is it a "friendly" smile? Or is it a "You're cute" smile? When a girl smiles a friendly smile, it's usually one of those forced smiles, or quick 2 second smiles, you know like if you told a funny joke or something. But a "You're cute" smile comes from the whole face, including the eyes! As a matter of fact, she may glance away a couple of times and back at you still smiling.
I've Caught Her Looking At Me More Then Once! (Looking)
Girls (well some, even most) tend to look at you an awful lot if they like you. But they try to do it so you don't notice, after all, it's rude to stare right? And hey, what if you don't find them so attractive? Then they've been caught and they're all embarrassed. So they usually do it rather subtle like. But if you can catch her glance, then you're definantly hip to her hop, eh, so to speak.
She Seems More Like Me Then I First Thought! (Mirroring)
After a girl gets to know you a bit better, she will most likely want to have some part in your life, and do something to get you to notice her. More often then not, they'll mirror you. By this I mean, they may start to imitate some of your motions, or body language, or perhaps the way you talk or even dress. Anything to make them seem more like you, and in doing so, more desirable. Because face it, we're all in love with ourselves!
What Girls Say And What It Means
WHEN THEY SAY...
when a girl says..."you are so cute"
she means..."you are little boy cute"
when a girl says..."I'm not as pretty as her"
she means..."you better tell me I'm prettier than her"
when a girl says..."what are you doing this weekend?"
she means..."lets hang out this weekend"
when a girl says..."Subway sounds so good right now"
she means..."Boy! You'd best get off your ass and buy me a Subway
sandwich!"
~Phew~ Thanks Steve, you really helped me out there. Now take me back home.
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